I’ll Have What She’s Having
Personal stories. Expert guests. Honest conversations about what we want in love, sex and pleasure—and the messy bits along the way.
Why Can’t I Orgasm? The 3 Things You’re Missing (Part 1/3)
“Why can’t I orgasm?” Let’s talk about it. In part one of this three-part conversation, I explore permission, emotional patterns and body awareness, along with my own experience of finding pleasure again.
Episode catalog

Featured Episode: 57
Sex + Men: What We All Need To Know
In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, I’m joined by Gayatri Beegan - an erotic mystic, initiatrix, and Sacred Sexuality Guide - for a deep, honest, and expansive conversation about sexual energy, desire, power, and pleasure - especially through the lens of men’s sexuality and how it impacts our relationships as women.

You are SO Done Settling! It’s Time For An Upgrade

Does this sound familiar?
❌ Sex is painful!
❌ I don’t know how to ask for what I want.
❌ Orgasms are hard...
❌ The bedroom is dead. I'm getting ready to leave...
❌ Sex is mediocre. Am I missing something...?
❌ I want spiritually connected sacred sex!
❌ I don’t feel worthy of incredible sex.
I’ve got you.
I'll Have What She's Having is your guide to getting exactly what you want in love, intimacy, and pleasure—without shame, without settling, and without faking it.
Why You'll Love This Podcast
✨Real Talk
You’ll feel like you’re right there with us. Listening to real-life conversations that make you feel heard, understood, and seen in what you’ve been going through. And the odd hilarious sex story - because of course!
✨ Expert Insights
Your host is a Sexual Empowerment Coach with over 1,000 hours of training. Kris teaches Tantric sex techniques, Somatic Sex Tools, sex neuroscience, communication hacks, and the best pleasure techniques. You’re in good hands! Plus, just wait till you meet our guests!
✨ Actionable Tools
So you don’t just listen—you actually transform your sex life. Every episode has take-home techniques (and lots are for solo play!) so you can start creating the life you desire today.

Because you deserve it all.
Real talk. A little laughter. Something to try.
Personal stories
Stories about the things we often keep to ourselves. Desire, relationships, pleasure—and the occasional hilarious sex story.
Expert guests
I bring my coaching experience and a lot of questions. My guests bring their own tools, stories and ways of seeing things. We get into it.
Practical advice
Something to try when the episode ends: a practice, a question or an idea to take into your own life.


Hey, I’m Kris.
“Saving the world…
one orgasm at a time.”
Five years of painful sex sent me searching for a way back to my body and my pleasure. Starting the podcast became part of that search.
I’m a VITA™ Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach with over 1,000 hours of training. Here, we talk about desire, relationships and the things we usually keep to ourselves. Sometimes it’s messy. Sometimes it’s funny. It’s all part of being human.
That question on your mind?
Got a question about sex, pleasure or relationships? Send it in. Yes, that question too. Someone else may be wondering the same thing.
Ask your question.
What would you love us to explore on the podcast?

Meet Your Host: Kris Hall
Saving the world... one orgasm at a time.
And that started with her own!
As a VITA® Certified Sex, Love, & Relationship Coach with over 1,000 hours of training in somatic experiencing, breathwork, Tantra, and modern coaching techniques - she’s all about lasting transformation.
Talking is cool, but let’s do the work to actually get what we want! For her, it was bigger, better, juicier orgasms. And to no longer feel terrible pain during sex where there should have been pleasure.
After healing herself, she’s here to help you get where you want to be.
Pleasure is your birthright - and the greatest empowerment tool you’ll ever find. It’s worth discovering how to use it to your fullest advantage to create the life you’ve been craving.


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